FrodoBaggins: Pick any site, and show me games where multiple men are paraded around (the same way that women are) half naked, with skimpy outfits that barely cover grossly enlarged bulges? And I don't mean 1 man in 1 game for 1 scene that doesn't even focus on his privates. I mean, make it equal to how women are treated - multiple men paraded around.
I don't think I can find the examples you're asking for, because like I said in my previous post, I don't think that is what women typically want in an erotic game. No publisher or developer would want to make games like that because they wouldn't think they'd be profitable.
FrodoBaggins: Yes I'm a woman. No I don't like porn. But my main issue, is that this is always done at the expense of the woman, not the man. The man is not treated like an object. If there was the same amount of games treating men and women equally, I still wouldn't like it, but I wouldn't have such a problem, because it wouldn't be only the women that are targeted.
If you don't like porn, and therefore don't play porn games, how do you know the women are being objectified? Is simply being naked and/or having grossly large private parts inherently objectification? Doesn't the evaluation of objectification depend on the context of the nudity? I think Japanese visual novels do a good job of humanizing women.
In Japanese visual novels, female characters typically are respectfully clothed in all non-sex scenes. Female characters are typically educated, cultured, and/or have respectable careers. They have a diverse range of hobbies/interests like video games, history, novels, movies, sports, science, etc. They have a diverse range of personality types and may have traumatic or tragic pasts.
In Japanese VNs, you'd have to go through a long sequence of romance scenes before even getting to a sex scene.
During sex scenes, female characters will voice their inner monologue and openly express how you should act to please her.
In Japanese VN sex scenes, men are objectified more than women.
Female characters often have dialogue lines voiced by professional voice actors whereas the male protagonist only has dialogue text without voice acting. The male protagonist's face is robotic and expressionless (the man's eyes are covered with only nose and mouth showing). The male protagonist's body has a grossly large genitalia; it is like he only exists as a sex toy for the woman.
I always saw the female characters in VNs as humans with feelings, desires, and accomplishments, not as objects.